Month: May 2025

The Solo Divorce Journey: Hilary’s Story of Going Pro Se in Court (Ep. 19)

The Solo Divorce Journey: Hilary’s Story of Going Pro Se in Court (Ep. 19)

When you’ve been praised for a smooth divorce but suddenly find yourself representing yourself, what exactly went wrong? This episode dives into the unexpected journey of going pro se with special guest, Hilary – an artist turned self-representative in the courtroom.

Join Gabrielle Clemens, a certified divorce financial analyst, as she explores Hilary’s story of navigating from having top-tier law firms to handling her case solo. Learn the unforeseen challenges she faced, the strategies she employed, and the liberation she found in taking control of her narrative. This episode provides essential insights for anyone considering a self-representation path in their divorce process.

Gabrielle and Hilary discuss:

  • (00:01:32) Building a legal team and selecting the right attorneys 
  • (00:16:27)Transitioning to self-representation and forming a support network 
  • (00:18:57) The realities and challenges of navigating court systems alone 
  • (00:24:21) Strategies for maintaining composure and boundaries 
  • (00:28:46) Reflecting on empowerment and the feasibility of representing oneself on financial vs. parenting issues 

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